I Love my Girlfriend - but I CheatedWe often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Male I have been with my girlfriend for almost 2 months and everything is going great, i have never cheated in my life and i told her i would never cheat. 2 months have passed, I am not in love with her yet but i do see it happening. last night i gave into temptation and slept with another girl. This girl was all over me and i told her to not get up on me like that because i had a girlfriend, i was drunk and i gave in and started messing around with her and eventually slept with her. I feel so bad,i feel that i dont deserve my girlfriend, She is such a perfect girl, one that i could marry down the road. i just dont know if im ready for such a perfect girl but i dont want to give her up and lose something that could have made me happy for the rest of my life. so now i feel bad and dont know what to do. But one thing i do know is i really like my girlfriend alot and dont want to lose her for some one night stand. please help me i dont want to cheat! User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Male tell her Well you have that feeling in the pit of your stomach, your guilt is building everytime you look at her face everytime you go and kiss her, I cheated on my girl yesterday, its happened to me in the past the best thing to do it tell her over the phone don't exspect things to be great if you stay together. My advice for you is to just end it and learn from your mistake. Next time think would you really want someone to betray you like that? Well good luck. The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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