He keeps coming back



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Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Female
There is this guy that i went with for a month at the beginning of our relationship, and then we broke up, well we have been having a "on and off again" relationship for the past 2 years. He says he loves me and i really love him but he always finds someway to hurt me and "break up" with me. He either wants me when he is drunk or when he finds out i have someone else. I keep going back to him knowing i am going to get hurt. What is his problem and should i really keep going back to him. I truley believe he loves me.




User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
don't take him back


My advice is even though you really love him, don't go back out w/ him, I had a boyfriend ( his name was J*) we kept breakin up and than I took control I broke up with him.... Today I have a boyfriend named N*... we didn't break up yet... Which is good! Find another guy go out with I* since he lives close to you trust me girl, LDR NEVER work out I've learned that.... Just keep smiling and if you get REALLY stressed out than don't even think bout datin'

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