He said he cant trust me because of an incident that i didnt tell the whole truth aboutWe often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female My boyfriend and broke up recently. We both still have strong feelings for each other. He said he cant trust me because of an incident that i didnt tell the whole truth about. It was four months ago and i was scared that if i told him he we would be over. He said hes not mad about what happened, hes just upset about the lies and cover ups. I really miss him but i think i really hurt him. I wasnt trying to. I just wanted us to stay together like he wanted. I want to gain his trust back and i want things to go back to how they were before. I want to be back in a relationship with him. He really meant alot to me and i love him with all my heart. What can i do to try and make things work out between us? User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Male Tell the truth i have had the same problem with being able to trust my girlfriend after not telling the whole truth. it can affect your relationship in a big way, what i suggest is that you tell him that you will be completly honest with him and do so. It is easy to spot wen you are not telling the truth, lieing will destroy any chance you may have left. The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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