I kept telling him that I was going to leave,but never did



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I wrote before regarding my reationship with an older man while I have been married.He does not have any children and he is not married.He told me that we couldnt see each other anymore because he was feeling guilty and I think he wants me to leave my husband.I kept telling him that I was going to leave,but never did.I have not heard from him in almost two months.I have written him letters but he has not responded.It is like I have disappeared from his life.I love this man so much and I just dont know what to do.




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decide who


really sit down and decide who you want to be with--I was in the same situation and left my mate for someone else--after about 2 weeks my ex was dating someone else--rebound none the less--and I felt terrible---just make sure you don't love the other person anymore before you move on--there is always the option of being by yourself and descovering new things you never knew about yourself--and there is always someone new--at any rate your obviously not in love with either one because you cant commit to either one--have a convo with God he'll know what to do

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