How can we be together and not hurt our kids?We often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 41-50 year old Female I'm still in love with my ex after 16 years.Were both married and have chilren but want to be with each other! How can we be together and not hurt our kids? He's also in California and I'm in Florida! Please help me!!!We love each other more now than ever but can't live with the fact that our children will get hurt the most!What can we do? User Submitted Advice from a 31-40 year old Female True love only comes once Counselling? Thats going alittle far! Relationships come and go,thats life. The kids are important,but theres NO need to stay with someone you don't love for the kids! Thats going to hurt all thats involved in the long run! Where you live and your Financial needs is also a part of your everyday life! What will family and friends think,Well we learn this in school years ago,Do for yourself and not worry about what other people think because they don't live your life day after day!! Rather the relationship works out or not,at least you did what you wanted to do! Thats the biggest problem in this world today,everyone wants to get involved and have no idea of the facts! Theres nothing wrong with you at all but true love! Timing was never on anyones side!I say follow your heart! Good luck!! True love only comes once in our lives! The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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