NEVER, Ever CheatWe often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female I have been with my boyfriend for nearly four years now and we plan to get married in a few years when we are both done with school. I expect us to be engaged as early as this summer because I know its coming I'm just not sure when or how. I have always been a person completely against cheating. I never have before and I always looked down on people who did. But recently I started working at a new job and I am so completely head over heels attracted to one of my coworkers. He is the exact polar opposite of my boyfriend which is why I feel I am so attracted to him. I love my boyfriend so much and I am sure I want to spend the rest of my life with him. I have not yet hooked up with the man from work but the attraction between us is nearly unbearable. My boyfriend and I do not have a perfect sex life but I am pretty satisfied. I could easily hook up with the man from work and my boyfriend would never find out. I am really torn because I love the relationship I have with my boyfriend because we are so perfect for each other but the attraction to this man is unbareable. I have always been against cheating but I feel like this time I can make an exception but I am worried about the consequences of living with myself if I was to cheat. What should I do?? User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female Love finds me look I have a desease and I am not looking for love,nomatter what happens..... love finds me!!!!Im friends with everybody including you.So don't forget about me.Ive been through alot of s*** u cant even believe.Don't even wANT TO EXPLAIN.....AND WON'T!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!SO TELL ME ARE THERE FOR ME? The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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