He Should Miss What He LostWe often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Female I know! I know! I know! Everyone keeps telling me this is going to get easier and that he doesnt deserve me anyways but why do I still feel like Im without a heart anymore. My ex-fiance and i broke up about two weeks ago and we are "friends" now, the problem is we are continuing to have a physical relationship but he still says he doesn't want to be anything but friends. During our relationship I was extremely unhappy and always worried he was cheating on me. I am the one who broke it off in the first place but then I got scared and I did the same old thing trying to "work things out" again. This time he said no. I was devistated, in our relationship I was the perfect girlfriend, and he was always the one who was hurting me, so my question is if I am the one who broke it off and he was doing wrong towards me in our relationship why am I the one suffering right now, shouldn't he be upset about what he lost? User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female Find a nice man As long as you let him come back and sleep with you without commitment then he will. If he loved you then yes , he would be upset about the situation so for your own sake , hard as it is ,then cut the ties and don't see him. The day you don't get bitter and annoyed at what he's thrown away is the day you're over him. You deserve better. Be brave and cut contact , do your grieving on your own and then find a nice man The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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