I'm Trying to Finally End my RelationshipWe often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Male How do I finally end a relationship that is off and on, hot and cold all the time? I have wanted to see the relationship come to an end for several months now, but I can't seem to make the end stick. Several times I have even left her, but I always go back. Why? It is frustrating to know that I allow myself to go back, because that means that the woman I am dating knows that she can change my mind if she applies enough psycholocical pressure. I would love to get any ideas about how others have ended a dysfunctional relationship once and for all. User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female 60 days 60 day rule mate! Don't have any contact with her for 60 days - no calls , no contact no nothing. If you feel tempted to get in touch then promise yourself that you will wait for the 60 days to be up before you do. I guarantee that if you make an effort to get on with your life then by the time the 60 days are up then you won't want her The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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