I'm Living with my Boyfriend - and Want to Date my Coworker



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Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
I like this guy at work, but there are problems. I have a long term relationship and I think he does too. The feelings I have for this man are causing problems in my relationship. I have been sleeping in the spare room for over a month now and dont want my boyfriend to touch me.

I think about this man at work constantly and feel the need to approach him somehow but dont know how to! I know that he likes me and have confirmed it through your flirting section!

I have never had problems approaching men before but I dont think I would handle it very well if he did not want to know.




User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Male
Be persistent


I think you should talk to your coworker .Be more friendly get to know him better.
Maybe he is the right one for you.He may be having some relations try to get to know his relations with his mate or who ever.
Trust is important.May he is thinking the same way you are thinking.
May be he knows all about you but as he realy loves you,he likes to keep in touch.
Be friendly with him and both should listen to each other.You both should go out ,hang around ,movie,cafe,drama,shows and lot of things.
i think you have strong feelings for your coworker so show it to him and see his reaction.
you will surely have your way.As it is office it may be not easy for both of you to communicate at times.But be persistent.

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