I still love her, but i dont think we can get back together.We often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a unknown year old Male Hi there, me and my girlfriend of two and a half years had a very bad break up. Me and my girl would hang out everyday, I havent seen her for 32 hours, and thats the longest we have ever been apart since we have been going out, we had broken up before but only for a few hours. Anyways she said that i dont talk enought (Im a quiet person) and that she doesnt know if she loves me anymore. I almost never cry, but when she told me that and we broke up, I havent been able to stop. All my friends are over at her place right now, because we would all hang out over there. I still love her, but i dont think we can get back together. Please tell me how to forget about her, I cant stop thinking about her even when Im with my friends. I seriously cant live like this, its like torture User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female Take it day by day I am going through a similar situation right now, though I don't know how long ago you wrote here. I dated a boy off and on for four years, and we were best of friends. Now I find it akward when i even consider hanging out with them because he is dating someone new and I am heartbroken and still having trouble sleeping most nights. Like you counted the hours since your break up, I counted the minutes and each one was painful, while he seemed barely affected. Now I have to avoid where everyone hangs out to prevent awkwardness. Fun stuff... but you seem like a genuine and sensitive guy, which is a BIG plus! So stay sweet and take it day by day. The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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