I know he cheated on meWe often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female my bf just broke up with me couple days ago. we've been seeing each other for 2 months before i left him to go study abroad, since then we had long distance relationship. in our 6th motnhs relationship, he was asking to take a break for a week because he said we need to figure out things why we fought a lot of times and he promised me that time that he'll back to me but actually it all lies. he then broke up with me with a family issue excuse. not long before he broke up with me, he put his pics with one girl that he mentioned earlier to me. I know he cheated on me. I am hurt so bad, when we talked on the phone, he was p*ssed at me because i accepted the break up without arguing with him. then he told me something like, well, we still be friends right? if we're meant to be, we will be together. He knows that i am gonna go home to my country in the next 3 months. my questions are: 1. is there any meaning by him saying: "well, we still be friends right? if we're meant to be, we will back together again." 2. how to get him back? because i still love him and i just dont wanna loose something that we've had before. our happiness was unreplaceable with anything. we were so in love but everything soon changed after couple months of our long distance relationship, last thing i know, he has a new gf. it happened so fast, less than a month. 3. do you think, he's gonna contact me if i am already home? 4. how to make him want me back so bad? 5. do i need to wait for him to contact me? for how long? thanks. i'll look forward to recieve the advice. -bluemoon- User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female Make him feel happy hey there, u know wut? i think ur guy is having imagination that u seein someone when u're there and he feels insecure about u. Wanting to b ur fren is already a signal that he doesnt wanna lose u and wants u back when time is right! So y u worry!? When u r back in ur country, dont b soo clingy on him. Don show u r sad but then be comfortable being around him. Try ur best dat u knew nothin abt he gotta girl, n that he had ask for a break. If he ask u out, flirt a lil with him. Don over react. look in his eyes, punch him a lil n show a lil affection that u care and would love to be his best fren and he wil b a great buddy. If he didnt call u out, when u r home, u call him then. go to some place where he and u can b happy n yet distract your both mind from thinkin of that hurtful moment. play game together at arcade for example. street fighter, kick him punch him everything in the game n laugh your heart out! BE a happy lil girl(but don over-react), ok! He'll love you bad, badly. Also dont forget to make him feel happy n comfortable with u. Dont make him think of his new g/f at all when he is with u. The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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