He Cheated - I Left - I Miss HimWe often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Female well theres a boy i used to go out with and i broke up with him cause i heard he was cheating on me so then i broke up with him we had a lot of connnection between each other we liked each other alot every time i used to call him. But since we broke up i miss him alot every time when we see each other ill be saying theres goes my ex i still like him i have feelings for him but since we havent talk. How can i tell him that i still have feelings for him? User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female Talk to him hmmm, never break up with ur guy for reasons like 'hearing' this or that! If u love a guy, u wont be intrigued so fast at hearing rumors. I think u miss the good connection u had with him. Not the love! Anyway, how did he feel when u broke up with him? How would a man wan to be with someone who easily listen to others n then make a decision for a break up bcus of wut others said? He totally feels u dont care at all about him but u care n trust more for others. There's no other ways to let him kno u have feelings for him except for you to make the first move. I think for u here, ur actions need to speak louder than ur words and see does he gets ur hint! IF he doesnt gets ur hint, then take it that he never sees u as his g/f again. If he gets ur hint, then let him b the first to speak to u. But please, actions doesnt mean, u must kiss him, sleep with him etc, Wut i mean by actions here is, give him the good connection. Maybe u talked to him too much onthe phone, n spend less time being public with him, thats y u easily believe others when they said he cheated on u. So cut down talking on the phone. Go out together and talked face to face and then u can see lots of difference. The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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