I am Trying to Get Him Back



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Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
I broke up with my ex 1 year ago. After broke up, he said we can be a good friend. But now, when i call him, he refuse to talk to me and his new gf will start to sms me "be stronger and forget the past".

What is that? I am not going to disturb their relationship. Just contact him as a friend. But actually deep inside my heart, i still very love him and if there is a chance, i want to get him back. And i can't lie, sometime i call him because i so miss him.

What makes me so sad is when he pick up my phone sometime, the first word he will say is "Yes, whats again?"

I can feel something there. I am not sure what feeling is that. And since we broke up, we never see each other. And when i request to meet him, he refuses unless he bring his new gf.

Please give me some advice to deal with this situation and how to forget him? I wonder, why we can't be a good friend. Thank you so much..;)





User Submitted Advice from a unknown year old Person

I think that you should move on. His new gf knows what's going on that is why he will only meet you with his new gf.

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