I cant imagine my day without thinking about him!We often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female Me and my ex boyfriend broke up around 8 maybe 9 months ago, and he is still all I can ever think about, I never got a reason why him and I broke up, but when we did I was really upset over it, I couldnt eat or hardly sleep for 2 weeks straight, he lives in a different provience,because after we broke up I couldnt bare it anymore, and I had to more back to my home! I try to call but he refuses to answer me phone calls, he will pick up and hear its me and hang up! it hurts me so bad because I dont understand why he cant just talk to me! When we were going out, we were so close we used to spend every signle day together, we were just so close on so many different levels, like we would cry together because we loved eachother so much and we were so happy, so i have no idea where and how things went wrong! the summer past i started doing stupid stuff like taking pills and drinking to try and die, but ive overcome that and have gotten help,and I no longer feel that way! i wish so much that him and i never broke up! I wish I was still with him, but i do not want to be with him again, I was to be with him still, i wouldnt be able to be with him again because if it didnt last before it probably wont last this time! I just want to get over him, and this is by far the hardest thing ive ever had to do! I dated other guys or whatever but still always in the back of my mind...hes there and I just cant get him out, I havent went a day without thinking of him since ive known him, and I cant imagine my day without thinking about him! can you please help me and tell me what to do! please im going crazy and im on stress medication to help me! i need some advice please! thanks a lot! User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female I miss him so I am actually almost in the same situation!* so i thought id comment , well me and my bf broke up about 5 months ago i guess , and i didnt quite have a reason why we broke up either,but it broke my heart into PEICES! About a month or two i guess he started talking to me as friends, and after all the months i spent bawling and sobbing over him, because i love him! , one of my friends told him , how i was feeling, and he told her he felt the exact same way!! , and so on , he was my 1st love, my 1st everything , and i miss him so much , and i would do anything to be with him, but my parents just wouldnt allow it! , and it hurts soo much! because my heart aches for him , each and everyday, he tells me he loves me so much , and yet acts differently around others?! why i dont know! i wish i did, he asks me to movies and what not, but always seems to ignore me? , like he was making it up or something? like he doesnt want me to go with him? , god its soo hard! , ive been losing sleep constantly!! over the repeating image of him! The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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