Why does he do this and make me feel bad for things I shouldnt feel bad about? And why do I still love him?



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Hi, well about a month ago my ex and I got back together. Not dating just considering it. And then he calls me up after 3 weeks and tells me he decided he doesnt want a relationship because he wants to have fun and do things with other girls. I said, ok well just call if you ever change your mind. A couple days later I hang out with a guyfriend of mine and then about a week later my ex calls me. He wanted to get back together so we did and we were dating then he found out about me hanging out with my guyfriend. He cussed at me and yelled and told me I was a whore. Why does he do this and make me feel bad for things I shouldnt feel bad about? And why do I still love him?




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hi. i have been in the same kind of relationship with my son's father. him and i was on and off again. Friend it is not worth your love or your precious time. let him be. i does not want to see you happy at all. he thinks that it is him and only him when it comes to you. you will never be happy if you continue to go back with him. trust i did this for 2years. and it turned out very bad for me. move n and enjoy life. be smart. sarita

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