I'm In Love with Another Man



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Original Visitor's Question from a 41-50 year old Female
I'm married, but in love with someone else. It's very, very complicated. The person I'm in love with is my fourth cousin. I know that sounds bad but he makes me feel attractive and sexy again! My husband doesn't pay me any attention anymore. We never intended for anything to happen. It just did. But I can't help it! I think of him all the time. Not only that I come from a very, very, very, religious family background. So that makes it even more complicated!! I don't want to dissapoint anyone in my family, but I can't help how I feel! We are very close, I feel I can tell him everything and he's not judging me or waiting for me to say something wrong so he can go and tell everyone what a screw up I am! He makes me feel so good and pretty again! I dont' know what to do! I'm so confused! Can anybody help me?





User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female
Go Get Him


i am also married, and " in love" with someone else who is not
i think i cant help it either! the only thing on my mind is this other guy! this guy is everything my husband is not... i know it sounds so bad, and i am the person i have always hated, but i cant help it, i love him.... dont know yet what will happen... the guy knows i am married, and i have 2 kids, he is great with them! i get butterflys in my belly when i think of this guy.... girl, one thing to say, in your heart you will know whats right!!! GO GET HIM, AND DO IT BEFORE HE FINDS SOMEONE AND YOU HATE YOURSELF FOR NOT TRYIN HARDER!!!! LOVE YOU "EDGAR" JAY JAY HEHEHEHEHE

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