He doesn't want the baby



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Original Visitor's Question from a 41-50 year old Female
I am 38 yrs old and 6 weeks pregnant. I have been with the father for 1.5 yrs. I had a misscarriage about 4 months ago and "J" was very cool about me keeping the baby.
This pregnancy really was an accident and now "J" is basically threatening me about the status of our relationship and what the future would entail if I keep the baby.
After the miscarriage I caught "J" cheating on me but we are working it out and everything is great. The relationship has never been better.
Either way I feel at this age it is immoral to even consider abortion. Joe and I have very good incomes and are almost 40 yrs old. He said it just doesnt feel right this time. I think he is immature and irresponsible.
Just looking for another opinion since I will not discuss my pregnancy with anyone.
Thanks for the great website!!!




User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female
Keep the baby


you have that baby whether he wants it or not i lost my baby 2 weeks ago and my husband dont want us to try again he said the first time was a accident but i feel empty inside and i want to try to get preganant again. but u keep your baby and you love it. how many kids you got? i have none

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