The Seven Year Itch



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Original Visitor's Question from a 41-50 year old Female
I have been married for 7 years and have 2 children aged 3 and 5. Myself and my husband have not been as we should for the last 3 years mainly due to me losing the physical attraction to him. We plodded on as you do thinking that it is just a phase and that things will improve but they didn't and we separated as I feared that I may end up having an affair with a friend who I was very attracted to.

We have now been separated for 4 months now and I'm having a relationship with this friend. I have a thousand questions going on in my head 24 hours a day, like: Have I been hasty, could the attraction have returned at some point with my husband? I'm very confused and need advice!




User Submitted Advice from a 31-40 year old Female
Get a toy


I KNOW IT'S HARD TO GET SITTERS FOR SOME PEOPLE.. WOMEN GO AND GET YOURSELF A . PUT YOUR KIDS TO BED EARLY. AND SURPRISE YOUR HUSBAND, HE WILL LOVE IT. MEN LIKE THIS.

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