I'm Trying to Finally End my Relationship



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Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Male
How do I finally end a relationship that is off and on, hot and cold all the time? I have wanted to see the relationship come to an end for several months now, but I can't seem to make the end stick. Several times I have even left her, but I always go back. Why?

It is frustrating to know that I allow myself to go back, because that means that the woman I am dating knows that she can change my mind if she applies enough psycholocical pressure. I would love to get any ideas about how others have ended a dysfunctional relationship once and for all.




User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Male
In same boat


Guys I hate to be the harbinger of bad new, but i think most of us are in that boat.

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