He's With Another Girl - I Want Him BackWe often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female my ex and i have been together for 5 yrs (on and off). the last two years of that has been a long distance relationship. we broke up the last time coz i found out that he cheated on me. after 10 months, i forgave him and decided that i wanted us to get back together. he wanted it too but it turns out that he couldn't do that at the moment. he's with a girl who is unfortunately undergoing chemotheraphy for breast cancer. my boyfriend said that he loves me more but he's stuck in the middle. he knew that he couldn't leave his current girlfriend right now but he also doesn't want to lie and get back with me knowing that he's still with someone else. he told me that he just needs more time and that the next time we get back together, it's gonna last. now my problem is this, i'm willing to let him stay with the girl. i'm just scared that he might end up falling in love with her and forget about me. i was thinking about staying with him secretly (but not formally together) just to make sure that he is not forgetting that he's supposed to come back to me. i don't know what to do. i don't even know until when he has to stay with her. HELP!!! User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female All men alike i know what its like! my boy did that to me too! i guess all men are like that! even if they are nice! The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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