He Dated Me a Year - Turns Out he has a Family



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Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
I had been with that man for more than a year, then I had to break it off because it became clear it wasn't going anywhere, although we did not have any conflicts. It was a hard time for me and I had searched for an answer about what had happened in all the wrong places, until I found out a short while ago that this man is married and has kids back home (on another continent).

I am shocked, because this means he had lied so many times to me. He left a trace of destruction in my heart and soul, moreover, he was my first man (and I am already in my late 20s) and I had really respected and loved him a lot.
I am usually not a proponent of revenge, but this has gone too far, and he does not even have the courage to apologize. Should I tell his wife?




User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female
Tell the wife


well, I would say tell his wife if you now how to contact her. SHE deserves, so does HE.

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