i am attracted to another girl and we even kissed.We often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Male I am in a long distance relationship. my girlfriend lives near south america and i live here in the states/.. it has been 2 years since i last saw her. but we have been in touch regularly over phone and email. my parents never approved of our union. and i still have my exams to complete.. i feel my heart has gotten weaker over the time and parental pressure. I dont want to hurt her at all because i love her to death.. but of late .. i feel i am not in love with her as i was when we were together. i told her this but she does not want to let me go at all. and the reason i feel my heart has gotten weaker is because i find myself attracted to someone else. and even though i know its wrong.. i have not told my long distance girlfriend about my new attraction.. but i have told her that my love has gotten weaker.. i am in confusion as to how i should deal with my feelings and relationships.. i feel unworthy to continue a relationship with my girl because i am attracted to another girl and we even kissed. please advise. User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female Enjoy your romance You've got to eat the food that's in front of you. Thjank you for having a concience, it's not often men have those... you're a good guy you know? Enjoy your romances and stop feeling guitly about it. The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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