I really love him but i dont know what to believe



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I don't know if i should break up with my boyfriend because there is too much he said she said in this relationship.My boyfriend's cousin keeps on telling me things about my boyfriend.He tells me that my boyfriend messes with other females,he wants to be with someone else,he's using me for money,etc.Yes,the cousin has told me that he is very attracted to me but i dony like him in that way.I don't know if he's telling the truth or just trying to get me to break up with my baby.I really love him but i dont know what to believe because sometimes I don't hear from him around the time the cousin tells me crazy things and I dont know how to approach him w/o him thinking I don't trust him.B4 I met the cousin things were fine.(please help me through my situation,thank you)




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I actully want to know the answer to this question too. last week my boyF and I got into an argument and I sayed at my moms and he stayed at home. Well two days passed and we started talkig again, then i noticed a red dot on his neck that looked sort of like a hickey it looked k/of like the point of your thumb that size N that rounded. The story dosen't end there the next morning i found a black pullover that reeked of womens bodyspray. When he came back from work i confronted him he said it was his cousins. i've asked him a dozen times if he's cheating since then and he looks me in the eyes andand tells me no. i've been trying to study his body lang and he looks calm and laid back. Well it dsnt end there i saw his uncle a couple of days later and he told me as my bf was going home the girl i accused him with was there at his house but not with my bf, he said hes never seen my bf cheat or do nothing wrong behind my back. his unc was drunk when he said that.Oh and the hickey lookin thing excuse was "he thinks something bit him".

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