kinda cheatinWe often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Male Im not really cheating in the traditional sense, but I had a female friend in college my gilrfriend of 5 years didn't like her so she told me to cut ties with her. I did, but the ties were kind of reconnected. Me and this old friend talk a few times a month mainly about my girlfriend and her boyfriend giving each other advice on how to make our realtionships better. My girlfriend found out that i still talk to my old friend and she Blew up. I understand that making a mental connection is still cheating but I truly love my girlfriend. My girlfriend has cheated on me in the past but ive forgiven her for that. She now wont accept my calls and has changed her email address, this is only the day after. I'm good friends with her parents and am hoping for their vote of confidence. how do i get her to forgive me User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female Good luck >< All I can say is give her 3 days to cool off. Then try calling again. Lots of women get jealous when they find out their boyfriends have been talking to an old ex who just happens to be a friend of yours. She's jealous of the other woman, in some way or another. Don't try to convince her that she's prettier or smarter than your old girlfriend, she'll either think your lying or think your trying to sweet talk her to get something she think is the only thing you want from her. Also, don't lose contact with your old friend because your girlfriend tells you to! (That's an easy way to lose a friend) Mm...You 'could' write a heartfelt letter thoroughly explaining that "She's the only girl for you" and that "She should know that no other woman in the world could make you happy, the way she does". But be honest with it. Us ladies can tell when your lying in a second. All I can really say is good luck! The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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