after 7 years she broke up with meWe often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Male I WAS IN A RELATIONSHIP FOR JUST UNDER 7 YEARS WITH MY GIRLFRIEND IM 24 AND SHES 22 IT HAS BEEN A VERY GOOD RELATIONSHIP WE SHARED SOME LOVELY TIMES TOGETHER IT WAS REALY SPECIAL.WE HAVE HAD OUR FIGHTS JUST LIKE ANY NORMAL COUPLE BUT IN THE LAST 8 MONTHS WE HAVE STARTED FIGHTING ON NIGHTS OUT THE 1ST WAS ON HER BIRTHDAY NIGHT I GOT JELLOUS SO SHE BLAMED ME FOR WRECKING HER BITHDAY NIGHT THEN THE SAME THING HAPPEND ON NEW YEARS EVE.SINCE THE END OF JANUARY A GIRL FROM MY PAST HAS KEPT TEXTING ME AND MY EX SAYING SHE WANT ME TO GO FOR A DRINK WITH HER I DID NOT RESPOND TO HER.A WEEK AGO WE WENT OUT FOR A NIGHT OUT AND WE HAD A FIGHT CAUSE THE GIRL FROM THE PAST SAID SHE WAS GOIN TO TURN UP SO THE TENSION WAS HIGH COMING TO THE END OF THE NIGHT WE HAD A FIGHT AND I SAID TO MY EX I WAS GOIN TO SEE THE GIRL FROM THE PAST I KNOW THAT WAS WRONG BUT I DIDNT SEE HER. AFTER THAT NIGHT SHE SPLIT UP WITH ME THE FOLLOWING MORNING SHE SAID SHE HASNT BEEN HAPPY FOR A WHILE.I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO I LOVE HER TO BITS HER MUM KEEPS GETTING INVOLVED SAYING LEAVE HER ALONE AND HER BEST FRIEND KEEPS GETTING INVOLVED I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO PLEASE HELP MANY THANKS. User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Male talk to her i hate to say this but you have to think of the possibility that there might be another guy she has fallen for. Women do change in their early 20s, they can be ready for marrage then for some reason terrified of the idea. If she has not been happy for a while then there must be a reason, maybe she was initiating the fighting so you would end it. you have to either sit down with her and have a real conversation about your relatoinship or go over the past year in your head and trt to realise what actually went wrong in the first place. i am sure you had it good with her caus you dont make it to 7 year by accident, you must have really been in love. you have to get to the bottom of ot all. maybe some time apart might make you both realise how much you care about each other. The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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