I want my ex back



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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
ok well ive been hooking up wit me ex gf that was my first love n its been 4 years since we were going out but ever since dat day we would hook up but then for awhile we didnt cuz we got into a big fight n i have put her threw soo much shit but she forgave me n put her trust in me n i had asked her before if wed ever get back together she said yes i promise but she said that it needs to be the right time and this may were both graduating from the same school and its coming so fast and i havent spent time wit her like i always do and last night i asked her some questions if she still loved me she said yes n then i asked her if she still cared about me she said yes n i asked her if i would ever lose her she said no but t then i had asked her if she felt the same she said she dont know and then i asked her about us gettin back together she said i dont know but before she promised that we would and that her feelings wouldnt change unless i lied n i asked her if it was me the reason she dont know about us getting back together n she told me it wasnt me n that its her n the reason i asked her those questions is because how i havent seen her....and another thing after graduation her mom is wanting her to move....why do u think she is saying she dont know about us getting back together is it because she dont feel the same for me or wat? and why do u think i havent been able to spend time with her? is she confused about graduation or about moving or wat is it? n since valentines day this year weve spent every day together except for the past 2 days why do u think all this is happening?




User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
talk to her


i seem to b n the exact situation this girl is in.. im in love wit my ex boyfriend and we gt bak 2 days ago.. but the problem is im movin this summer and i hav no idea wht to do.. if ur girl is loke me im sure she loves u to death but cant risk hurtin herself again.. the best thing u could do would b to talk to her about these issue.. like wht would happen whn she left.. how much u want to make this work.. trust me this wil not only assure her wit ur commitment but just mak her love u more =)

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