He told me I was a disgusting slut and never again would I hear his voice or see his faceWe often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female I am 18 years old and have been in a relationship with the same person for 3 years (since I was 15) He is 22 years old. Recently, I came to college, met another guy, and cheated on my boyfriend. Through a series of events, my boyfriend found out. I denied it over and over, swearing up and down that it never happend. Finally, it was completely obvious and I couldn't take the guilt anymore, and I admitted it. He told me I was a disgusting slut and never again would I hear his voice or see his face. I'm crushed and feeling completely alone and disgusted with myself. I know what I did was wrong, and there isn't another person on this earth I love more than my boyfriend. (well not my boyfriend anymore). I know I need to give him time and space. I want him to know how much I absolutely adore him and how terribly, undeniably sorry I am from the bottom of my heart. I'm just so lost. How do I go about things? and will he ever forgive me? User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female Set the bird free Whether you know it or not, you had a reason to cheat on him. You have changed your entire life by having this affair; but you have also changed his life. Set the bird free, if it comes back, it is yours. The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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