I'm In Love with Another Man



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Original Visitor's Question from a 41-50 year old Female
I'm married, but in love with someone else. It's very, very complicated. The person I'm in love with is my fourth cousin. I know that sounds bad but he makes me feel attractive and sexy again! My husband doesn't pay me any attention anymore. We never intended for anything to happen. It just did. But I can't help it! I think of him all the time. Not only that I come from a very, very, very, religious family background. So that makes it even more complicated!! I don't want to dissapoint anyone in my family, but I can't help how I feel! We are very close, I feel I can tell him everything and he's not judging me or waiting for me to say something wrong so he can go and tell everyone what a screw up I am! He makes me feel so good and pretty again! I dont' know what to do! I'm so confused! Can anybody help me?





User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Male
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I'm in a situation very similar to yours. I'm in love with a married man and he makes me feel the same, he's like my drug i want and need him and although i'm married, i love this man as if i knew him for years and we've been seeing eachother for almost a year now and he tells me he loves me too, but if were so in love i dont understand why we cant become one, i'm trying to cope with my situation as you are with yours and i pray that we both will deal with these situations in gods hands.

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