i cheated..We often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female I have been with my boyfriend for almost a year, and I am completely head over hills in love with him. However, I found myself in a situation last night where I ended up sleeping with a close friend of mine. I don't know what it was, because I'm not attracted to this friend, but do find comfort in the way that he treats me. My boyfriend is the sweetest guy and I can't believe that I've done this, and now I just don't know what to do. I thought about telling him, but in the past he has said that if I ever cheated he would probably kill himself. I can't tell him because I know that he would leave me, and the thought of living without him is unbearable. I don't want to break up with him, but im going crazy with guilt. How can I possibly fix this without leaving my man? User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female Half truth is bad Damn...this sound exactly like myself. My only advice to y ou is that you either tell him nothing or tell him everything. this same exact thing happen to me bout three months ago...I sleep with a close friend of mines...and...thought i wanted to be with him because how he treated me...well I felt so depressed and guilty that i told him that i cheated but gave him a fake name...because he knew the guy...well plotting revenge on me...he not only told ppl that knew him but he threated to make me tell him....so I told...and we ended up breaking up. because i lied to cover another lie,and had to lie to cover that. and then when I eventually told him he was so far away from...me that It's almost impossible to get him back. * my only thing is he'll respect you more if you told him the truth... but dont tell half the truth. The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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