Am I Cheating with his best friendWe often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female I am 24 and my husband is 35, so there is quite a bit of difference in ages. Everything was fine in the beginning before we got married. And then everything changed immediately after the cermony (it seems as though anyways). It has gotten worse between us. We hardly ever talk and we basically don't have a sex life. There has been serveral times that I have threatened to leave but never have. Anyways, I have realized that a really good friend has feelings for me. Not just feelings but he has told me that he is in love with me. I have always had some sort of spark with him but have just ignored it. Now I don't know what to do. I'm certainly not happy with my marriage. I have tried so many times to work it out with my husband but it hasn't worked. We aren't stable enough in fianices to be going to a therapist. Please help. Because these feelings for this friend is getting so overwhelming. I just don't know what to do. User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female Leave? If you don't love your husband, leave! It's your life, not his. You control, not him. If you love this other guy, then go for it! I hope it doesn't turn into turmoil though. Best of luck! Victoria B. The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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