I broke up with him, and he is still obsessively in love with meWe often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female So I broke up with him but he is TOTALLY in love with me still. So now it hurts me to see him depressed..so i call him to check on him but he said i'm hurting him even more because i'm raising his hopes up. So what do i do? I mean, I still want to know if he's dealing with the breakup. User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female Break up Guess what, you have two options. Tell him all the reasons for which you dont like him anymore. It seems bad, but it will work... I know... second option is that if he really likes you, just go back to him... but not directly, first check him if he really likes you or is just pretending. Now that you have broken up with him, you will not be emotionally dependant on him, so if you go back to him, the relation can be really fulfilling for you. The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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