What do i do?We often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female Me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 going on 4 years now. We have been through the worst and the best a couple could go through. We went to high school together and graduated last spring. That whole summer we were the best we had ever been. So much we know we want to spend the rest of our lives together. We adored eachother so much. Then we both moved away in August to go to school and have been trying to maintain a long-distance relationship. However it has been extreamly hard on both of us. And as a result we found ourselves on a break due to the issues we had been having. During this break, it was made clear that we were still together, just focusing more on school and everything else. We talked a few times during. Untill one day i found out he was dating a girl i had been suspect about but he swore was just a friend. I was furiouse and confronted him and we broke up for good. I had extreem anxiety for about a 2 weeks after it happend (happend about 3 weeks ago). We had many conversations about what happened. I want him back so bad, i gave so much of myself to him and even though what he did hurt me so bad, i still want him back. And he pretty much says he still and will always love me and wants to be together, just not now because he wants to focus on school and football and all that. The thing is i would be okay with that if we were still exclusive, but the fact that he talks to this girl and she is sooooo in love with him now makes me sick. he says she'll never replace me but i dont know if i beleive that. He's going back home in May for the summer and im afraid he'll be with her. Please help me. what do i do? User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female Fight continue fighting for your love until the last drop. The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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