Getting Over my Ex



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Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Female
I recently broke up with a guy I had been going out with for a while. It was so sudden. I wasn't expecting it at all. Its as if one day he woke up and decided that he didn't want to be with me anymore.

I'm having trouble getting over him. It's fine when I'm with my friends. Or if I'm doing something I enjoy. It hurts the most when I'm alone. I think of him and the things we did together and all I feel like doing is crying.

I really want to get over him and get on with my life but I can't. Oh, and he still wants to be friends. How can I be friends with him when I love him? Help I want to forget him!




User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Male
Improve yourself


Breaking up is hard even for us guys. I was with my ex-girlfriend for 7 years. The last two years we were arguing all of the time. I know it will get better for me and you as well all wounds will heal over time. So just work on improving your self.

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