should i keep trying or give upWe often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male ok me and my ex broke up 7 months ago before we started dating we were best friends for 6 months and then we dated for 10 months we were so happy we both were in love for the first time nothing could be better but towards the last 3 months of the realationship i started to get stressed about school and football and got mad at everything that was happing it was just stupid stuff nothing she could do could make it better for me i am soo dumb for that so she finally couldnt take it anymore i promised her alot that i would change and i never did so she broke up with me we didnt talk for a week after we broke up but after that we started to talk a lil bit then after a month we would hang out a lil bit and 3 months ago she said she was reading comments on my myspace page and some girls was saying she like me and my ex told me she got a lil jealous but she felt bad she said that to me cuz she doesnt want to lead me on but i couldnt help it and since then we have been getting pretty close again we are still really close frinds but 2 months ago she dated another guy for a month and it didnt work for her and in this past month we have been really close its like were dating again but were not everyone tells her to just get back with me and not lead me on but she tells me she wants to be single and she doesnt want me to wait for her but when we hang out i love it and she loves being with me but she says she doesnt want to be together i dont know what to do cuz i have changed from being the angry stressed out person i just want her to give me a second chance i know it can be better than before what should i do? User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Male Be happy be good Hi Dude, You are really lucky enough that she still likes you.Don't let her go away from you.Be good to her and she will start loving you back again.Infact almost similar thing happened with me too.But in my case she found better person now and she is no more with me.Everytime i thing about it i get mad and feel like to die,coz i know i should not have lost her. So be happy be good to her even incase if she doesnot want to be with you. The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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