I miss him and want him back...We often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female So me and my ex were together for a year and 8 months. I didnt really treat him as well as i should have =/ but i thought everything was ok becuase he never said anything. He broke up with me and said he never wants to give me a second chance but still wants to be friends. It is soo hard sometimes to just be friends becuase i love him soo much and would rather be with him. I know what needs to be different this time and I am going to make it different but he wont listne/give me another chance. What should i do to get that chance? User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female Hard to get i been throuqht dat too i know what it feels TRUST ME it a qood thinq dat he was the one to end the relationship and told you to be friends that does often works what u need to do is follow the tips FOr all you girls that had their heartsbroken.. even if you didnt go out with him for long.. even if there was nothing he'd rememeber you by.. believe me he'll miss your presence..JUST FOLLOW THESE TIPS.. and act like you dont care.. He'll come running back.. not matter how hard to get he is. Here are some ways to get him back: 1) if you guys hang out or are in the same place with a group of friends.. try to avoid him.. try to keep your distance.. and if he conversates with you.. then keep it simple and steady.. dont make it seem like you've wanted him to talk to you. *dont tell him you want him back.. it drives him away.. TRUST ME! and if you already have.. then make him feel like you got over him.. by following the next tips!! 2) guys want what they cant have.. so make him wish he never broke up with you by always looking your best.. 3)If you did hang out.. Always try to leave the place with a group of friends... it drives him crazy and he gets curious.. he'd want to know where you went 4)Make it sound like your life is better without him.. and seem happy 5)get closer to his bestfriend.. he cant help feeliong jelous then 6)act like this is how you are: hard to get.. dont make it seem like you're pretending .. because guys are smart 7)if he did ask you why you're ignoring him.. smile and say : Im not.. :D its just that ive been very busy.. Make it seem like you have things to do 8)Be laid back.. guys like mysterious girls.. confident girls.. girls that know whats good for them 9)When you're chatting with a group of friends.. and he happens to be one of them.. always try to avoid his conversations.. for ex: you and friends are talking about something.. he says something too.. act like you didnt hear it.. act like you're interested in what others are saying. 10)Dont look at him in the eye if you hung out.. look and smile at others..if he asked you if you were angry at him.. SMile and say.. : you didnt do anything wrong did you? 11)LOOK YOUR BEST ALWAYS!!! 12)rememeber what he liked you for.. maybe when he first met you, you wern't giving him attention.. DO THAT 13) if he texts , dont text back.. (not to all though) and if you HAD TO.. make the message simple.. mature and SHORT.. likw if he says " he hows it goin? you reply by sayin..: good.. with you?.. not " HEYY ITS GREAT .. what about you.. missed u" and all that.. 14) if he calls.. talk for a minute or two.. then make up an exuse to leave.. like say : oh i have to go ill call you back... " and the best part is.. DONT CALL HIM BACK!! 15)if he opens an online conversation with you.. wait for atleast 4-5 minutes.. then reply.. in simple words.. dont get too over excited 16) when sayin hi to him and friends.. pretend to forget to say hi to him.. and if he says: hey you forgot to say hi!" say : oh.. i didnt see you there 17)If you had the chance to leave without saying goodbye.. then do so.. he'll go crazy.. TRUST ME 18)NEVER CALL.. make him miss it! 19) and if this worked.. and he came running after you.. still be laid back and take him into you're life slowly.. and still act HARD To GET.. because he'll feel more attached.. TRUST ME.. THEY WORK!!!! The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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