I have cheated and feel like crap



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Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
I have always been a commited person in a relationship, especially the current one I am in. Me and my boyfriend have been together for about 5 yrs. now. I love him with all my heart, but I feel into temptation after taking a new job. I started messing around with a man that could have been my father (eww, I know but he was handsome). He showed me a good time taking me out to lunch everyday, and giving me that certain, love I was wanting from my boyfriend. Anyways, To make I long story short, My boyfriend found out eventually and keeps bring it up. I don't really know what to do to let him know I feel awful about what I had did. I promised him I would changed AND HAVE! He still brings it up and it has been a year after I have did this terrible deed! I want his heartbreak to end so we can have that wonderful relationship we had before.




User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
Rest of your life


I've cheated on my boyfriend with another man and i didn't like it so I broke up with the other man and stayed with my boyfriend.the advice I give you don't cheat on your boyfriend all it will do is make your boyfriend really mad and really sad and he might think you like the person more then him. and if your boyfriend finds out tell him that your really sorry and you won't do it again then tell him you love him and want to stay with your boyfreind for the rest of your life.

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