should I continue or stop ?We often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female C doesnt have any other relationship with anyone yet. C told me C give me 3 more years until I can stop loving her than C will find a husband for her. should i call her everyday? is it good idea? coz we live so far away from each other. but i can understand that she bored with talking with me sometime coz I dont have something much to say and always asking same questions that is so bored but if i dont call her i worry she will forget me. so what should i do??? how can i know if C still loving me?? but C sure that C will marry to a guy for her funture coz of her family. but she will give my wish that she will live with me a month. everytime i call her i can understand C worry about me coz when im sad, C always get mad with herself and sometime she get mad with herself coz C dont have much time for me, when C know im sick , she blame me alot that i dont take care of myself. I really dont understand her. I really want to know she still love me or not??? how can i know that? but C always told me even C still love me but she can't choose me, C has to marry with a guy that her family want. So what do u think? i should spend a month with her or should stop now? coz i know in the future she still can not choose me but i think a month living with her if i make her happy maybe i can change her mind to come back to me. but what happen if she still can not change her mind so i will get more hurt coz build more memories and still can not get her??? but i can not stop loving her at all what can i do???? pls tell me how can i get her love back? how can i make her in love with me back??? pls help meeeeeeeee User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Male Super special well....I've been i that situation and i have to tell you this yeah you can stay with her,but create a bond don't talk about the same stuff talk about different things you know make her like she's with someone super special.from Ian The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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