She's Avoiding MeWe often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Male I dated a girl this past winter and spring. she kept telling me how great I was and how I made things so easy. I really liked her too. Well, suddenly she broke up with me. she told me that she needed time to be alone because before we started to date, she was with someone for years and they were to get married and it bothered her the date was coming up. So I sulked for a while and I sent her flowers right after but no getting back to her. So I said I'll give her the summer to think about things. Summer ended and I decided to send her favorite teddy bear, Pooky, because that was her nickname I gave her. I also sent her a love letter too explaining how I still feel. A month later I get an e mail by her explaining the whole situation. Yes, what she said was true needing time but something bothered her the last time we were together. She said she was suspicious of me when she asked about driving by my house where I lived with my Mom but I was just shy about it. She thought I was living with someone and the reason we dated only on certain days led her to believe it but it was really work. She said that she would keep her Pooky bear because it was very sweet and she really liked it even though her friends said to give it back. I also asked her to call me but nothing yet. So now I really am going to try to get her back. I plan on sending her flowers to work for Halloween with a Halloween theme to it and if I can find a service to do this, want to place a billboard-mobile one if possible-at her exit off the highway telling her I love her. What should I do? Is this a good idea? Thanks, Dan User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Male Smiling Never believe a girl's smile.... The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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