I've been Cheating for Seven Years



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Original Visitor's Question from a 41-50 year old Male
I am in a relationship with a woman and I am still married. She has ask me to give her space because of are relationship. This has been going on for seven years she is upset because I have not left my wife . It has been an issue because of my two children. I love her and want to be with her but I am scared what would happen with the relationship between my kids and me. Your thoughts.




User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Male
decide before you get caught


What if you do love your wife and don't want to see her get hurt? Sometimes you see things in another person that you may not see at home. Maybe the other person gives you somthing the other doesn't.

Is it possible to love 2 people? I am in this situation too. I feel terrible sometimes about it, but on the other hand the other girl gives me something the wife doesn't. It isn't as easy as saying, just leave her.

What about the kids? Family involved, financial aspects, there are alot of things to be considered before making rash decisions.

However, a quick decision needs to be made before you're caught. That just makes things much much worse.

Good luck.

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