He Left - I Want him BackWe often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Female How can I bring my ex back. He broke up with me today because he said we didn't talk enough. I really really like him still. This bites. I am on Spring Break and it isn't going so well. First, my best friend moved on Friday, and then my boyfriend breaks up with me. Please help me!! Oh yea, now I absolutely hate my life. I wish it was over. Help me to get my boyfriend back, please. Bye. User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female Go On with Life Okay, first of all, don't jump to the fact that you hate your life and wish it was over, as that kind of thinking can eventually be dangerous. Try to take into account what you DO have going well for you. Secondly, feeling the loss of your boyfriend and best friend can be difficult. While there is nothing you can do about missing your best friend except try to maintain contact, there is something you can do about your breakup. Did your boyfriend give you any reasons for breaking up? If not, you can try to talk to him about what motivated the split and if there's anything you can do to work it out. If he did give you reasons for the break up, analyze if they are easily fixable or if they conflict with your beliefs and/or lifestyle. Some problems may not be fixable. Whatever the case, consider that each relationship is an opportunity to learn something. You WILL date other boys, your life WILL go on, very likely to even more wonderful things. In the meantime, if things with your boy do not work out, try to keep busy with your other friends and activities. The more time you spend involved in other positive things, the more you will realize that life can be just as fun and full without your honey. Hope this helps. Good luck! The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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