I really love my boyfriend A LOT and sometimes I am afraid of losing him



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I really love my boyfriend A LOT and sometimes I am afraid of losing him. We talk on the phone for hours, we both can’t get enough of each other but I hate the fact that he likes talking about sexual things. It’s uncomfortable talking about those kind of things to me. When I try to change the subject, he asks “if we don’t talk about this, then who will you talk about it with?” I don’t know what to do. He says we will always be together, but I don’t know if I should trust him, or give him my heart. When we are talking, he tells me how he would love to have sex, and that he’s still a virgin. But he knows too much about sexual things. He says he would only lose it with me. At times I feel like he’s just saying that so I could do it with him, and other times I believe him. Sometimes when we’re talking he says he can wait until we get married, (if we ever do!) and sometimes he says if we are both in the mood, it might just happen. I am so confused. I don’t know what to do anymore. I’m afraid I might just let him and regret it later on. HELP!!




User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female
It's Important to Wait


Pls wait until it is time.I know it is hard for man to wait so long but surely U will never lose her n will have her someday. Why don't U wait for that beautiful day? It is most meaningful day

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