My girlfriend of almost 6 years broke up with me 7 months agoWe often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Male My girlfriend of almost 6 years broke up with me 7 months ago. She had met someone new and broke up with me to be with him. I tried for a few months very hard to get her to take me back. Then i found a wonderfull woman and we have been together for almost 5 months, A few months finaly gave up on getting back woth my ex and let myself fall in love with my new girl. Well last week my ex let me know that she misses me, and wants me back. she broke up with her bf and sent him packing. She wants me back very baddly, and it hurts me to see her like this. but i love my new gf, i think she is a bettter person for me, we have our problems, but I have felt more alive than ever. I know i could go back to the ex, shhe promises that everything will change, but im afraid of things sucking, and we break up again and i ruin something good with the new girl, so i told my ex that i am staying with my nrw gf. but i have not totaly decided yet. OH and i am movingg in next door to my ex with friends next month(mostly my new gfs idea, so i can live closer to her(she lives in the same city as m y ex) please help hehe thanks User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female Stay with girlfriend Ok.. my advice is to stick with your new gf. Believe me..im goin through the same exact thing with my ex, well almost the same. We dated six years..and broke up like 4 months ago..and everytime one of date someone else, the other automatically becomes jealous..thats just the way it goes. Thats what i believe your ex is goin through, a jealous stage because she realizes that u are happy now and realizes what she has lost. On the other hand..im sure u love your ex, but thinkin about her is really unfair to your new gf. She has been there for u unlike your ex who dumps her bf and then automatically assumes she can have u back when she wants u. So all im askin..is consider your new gf's feelins because she's been there for u while your old gf just threw u away. AND LIKE george said..if i doesnt work out..your ex is right next door. REALLY: I wish u good luck The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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