How to Get Over a Guy



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Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
How do I get my ex boyfriend to fall back in love with me? I really love him so much and can't stop thinking about him. He has made me the most happiest person in the world and I would die if I couldn't find a way to get him back. So please help me get him back.




User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female
Make yourself happy first


I really don't know what to tell you. I was with a guy for 4 years who got deployed to Iraq. The past year I stuck by him and supported him and waited around to make sure I was able to talk to him. The day he got home, he broke up with me. He told me I didn't support him and I didn't love him. Him breaking up with me opened my eyes and really let me find out what kind of person I was. I say now that I don't want him back and all that but deep down inside I do. There's so many little things that bring back memories and I really do long for him, but it's hard when he treated me so badly when he got home. I try to keep myself busy, but as another person mentioned, the memories still flow. Just remember that somewhere out there there is a guy searching for you too and one day you will find each other! Make yourself happy first!

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