My girlfriend of a year and a half thinks I'm cheating on her but I'm really not



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My problem began a couple of days ago. My girlfriend of a year and a half thinks I'm cheating on her but I'm really not. The problem is that she has talked to my very vindictive and sneaky ex-girlfriend. I don't know what my ex-girlfriend said to her but whatever she said has made my girlfriend break up with me and now she wont ever tell me whats wrong nor will she listen to me or give me the opportunity to address the issue. We are supposed to be leaving in a couple of days for a one week cruise to the U.S. Virgin Islands. I paid for the trip but since she is the one who actually made the reservation she's telling me that she called the travel agent and requested that they change the my name on the itenirary to someone elses name and that if I make the flight on Sunday, It will be a waste of my time because I no longer have a boarding pass. Today is Thursday, May 12th and I've been trying to talk to her since yesterday and she refuses. Our trip is scheduled for this coming Sunday, May 15th. Should I just walk away and cut my losses or should I be patient and keep trying to communicate?




User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Male
talk some


hey im in the same boat kinda right now but i think you need to talk some since into her find a few facts that prove your love to her and see if that help and if you really love her then you will feel a little depressed amd a little like crying but just let it out maybe then will she see!

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