He still wants to be in the baby's life



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Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
My boyfriend of a year and the father of my unborn baby broke up with me 3 weeks ago. We were so in love and perfect for each other. Then I got pregnant. He still wants to be in the baby's life but he became a total asshole when i got pregnant. He just didn't want to grow up. I don't know how to get over him. I'm still so in love with him. He hasn't contacted me at all. We have a history of breaking up and getting back together. I think I want to be back together. What should I do? What can I do?




User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
boyfriend is probably scared


same thing happened with me i was only 16 when i got pregnant he did the same thing to me and then i pressured him he thought i dated someonelse and he coudlnt stand the fact someone else would raise his baby i just did everything he wanted me to do and as soon as that baby came he was there and is there a 100% your boyfreind is probobly scared very scared and men the only thing they know how to do is run. Just wait it out and see what happens but if you do not think he is right dont waste your time your love will raise that baby jsut fine cuz if hes a dick do u really want him in that babys life anyways?

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