Can this be worked through or not? Suggest Advice Do you have some advice for this person? Visitor's Question: We have been together for four years and we are madly in love with each other and we have been through alot together. There are some things in my past that he has had a real problem with, but we have tried to move on and work through it. Recently, some intimate details came up about my past and he thinks that this is it and that there is no way to get past this. He doesn't want the relationship to end, but he doesn't know how he can accept this and get these images out of his head. Is this possible and how? Side note: we are talking about something that happened ten years ago. Our Suggestion: It's unfortunate when people cannot "forgive and forget" things from the past. You were a different person then and he should accept that. My advice is for both of you to go to a professional counselor who may be able to work through this problem together with you. Good luck! George --Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com Your Advice: IMPORTANT NOTE: This form is not for getting advice!! This form is for adding your helpful note to THIS existing question. If you need advice, pleae read the Advice Pages. Your Gender: Female | Male Your Age Range: Select an Age Range 13-20 21-30 31-40 41-50 51-60 61+ Theme by TheBootstrapThemes