Thinking about him again Suggest Advice Do you have some advice for this person? Visitor's Question: OK, I was with my ex for 2 years before he broke up with me in october. He has a new girlfriend. We tried to stay friends but it was too complicated and painful. In january I pretty much cut contact, blocked him online, stopped calling and meeting up. He wanted explainations at first but I just emailed him telling him I was fine and kept it very short and sweet. Since then we have barely spoken. However because we'll be home from uni soon and in the same town with the same friends, I keep thinking about him again. I've heard many stories about couples splitting up at uni and getting back together in the holidays. His new girlfriend lives abroad and so I kinda have hopes that they wont stay together over the 3 month summer break. I don't know if this is true. But I think I want him back. Orignially I was desperate to get back with him, and he said he needed time, and that perhaps in a few months or years time we would. At that time we both wanted to stay best friends. Now that its been months, is there anything I could do? Or should I continue to get on with my life? Our Suggestion: The things you say are true. Why not keep things as they are. If you are going to get back together you will. If not then you will still be on the road to getting on with your life. You can't be expected to wait or chase him for month after month. Good luck! George --Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com Your Advice: IMPORTANT NOTE: This form is not for getting advice!! This form is for adding your helpful note to THIS existing question. If you need advice, pleae read the Advice Pages. Your Gender: Female | Male Your Age Range: Select an Age Range 13-20 21-30 31-40 41-50 51-60 61+ Theme by TheBootstrapThemes