having an Orgasam Suggest Advice Do you have some advice for this person? Visitor's Question: When ever my boyfriend fingers me or goes down on me I dont have an orgasam. Hes new at it so i sortof give him a few poniters but...i havent had an orgasam w/ any of my past boyfriends either. So is there a physical problem or what? I dunno what to do to have an orgasam. (oh and so you know its not b/c im gay. Trust me ive explored that possibility and i am strictly dickly.) Our Suggestion: Many women do not have orgasms easily. There are a number of reasons why this happens (and if you want to research them go to http://www.google.com and search ANORGASMIC). Have you tried giving yourself an orgasm? If you can then the likelihood is that you are nervous when you try it with your boyfriend. Good luck! George --Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com Your Advice: IMPORTANT NOTE: This form is not for getting advice!! This form is for adding your helpful note to THIS existing question. If you need advice, pleae read the Advice Pages. Your Gender: Female | Male Your Age Range: Select an Age Range 13-20 21-30 31-40 41-50 51-60 61+ Theme by TheBootstrapThemes