How to get my ex to fall in love with me again?

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We were the best of friends. He use to spend all of his free time with me. We both had our own place but he stayed with me about 5 days out of the week but he was always cheating. I cant be mad because I cheated too. But, we got into on Thanksgiving. He told me that he wanted some space so I gave him plenty of space. I moved the next day and did not tell him anything. I did not talk to him for 2 mos. then I realized that I was running away from the problem. When I seen him again he was like I am ready to commit to you now but he wanted me to move back. At the time I did not think it was the right thing to do because I was focused on moving on with my life but I wanted him to follow me. Instead I ended up not moving now I am stuck because he is involved with someone else now. But, he always calls me we spend all of our time together. If I am around he is with me but I don't think he loves me anymore. I really want to get him back. I want us to be together because without him I feel incomplete. With him I feel complete. He really makes me happy but I am just afraid of getting hurt. I want to be with him because we are really good friends. He is always listening to me and voicing his opinion on things but I never really listen to him. I do listen I just do the opposite of what he wants but now I feel like me doing the opposite has pushed him away. I left a month ago he hasn't seen me. He went over my best friends house the other day trying to find me. We talked and decided that when I got back we need to spend some time together but I really want him to fall in love with me again. What should I do?




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If I knew the secret of getting someone to fall in love with you I'd be a billionaire.

My advice is to concentrate on building a good relationship. To do this you need to have trust/honesty, affection/love, and communication. If you focus on these he may be drawn back to you.

Good luck! George

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