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my boyfriend & i have been together for a year & 4 months. we had a talk & he said meanly "i don't love you" but he says go by my actions & not my words, so if i went by his actions-his actions say that he loves me. also, he recently told me (excuse my volgarity) that he gets bored with having sex with the same vagina & that's why he never married and/or doesn't have a girlfriend for very long (i have been the longest) & it's not me, it's his problem but he still plans to be with me, do things with me & once in a while we have sex (he still likes the oral sex on him). my questions are: does he love me and how normal is that kind of thinking about sex & people? i am soooo confused because he acts like nothing ever happened & nothing was said--can you honestly answer my questions-i love when people just give it to me straight! thank you so much.




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He doesn't sound normal to me.
He sounds selfish, immature, and uncaring. You are letting him take advantage of you.

His attitude towards sex is very revealing. Not only doesn't he "make love," he also doesn't have sex with a woman but with a vagina. Then his idea of sex is oral sex performed on him.

Unless you are a glutton for punishment, you ought to dump him asap.

Good luck! George

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